She delivers it straight, with no chaser, to show us how to level up, and reminds you that how you live single will set the tone for your success in relationships.

Told in her signature style-sometimes salty and sometimes sweet-Faith provides real solutions that will teach you how to thrive in relationships while avoiding common missteps and pitfalls. Modern culture would have women believe they can’t have it all-and be smart, successful, strong women with authentic love to boot. And she’s seen it all! In Sis, Don’t Settle, she’s gathered an arsenal of love, wisdom and advice for women on how to play it smart.

Settle.Īs an attorney and arbitrator, Faith has presided over hundreds of cases, and has helped couples avoid and resolve a wealth of drama. When she turned 35 without a wedding ring in sight, like most women, she started getting tons of questions about not being married. I ended it after four months of these philosophies being revealed.DATE SMARTER, MAKE BETTER DECISIONS IN LOVE, AND ACHIEVE THE RELATIONSHIP YOU DESERVE… IT ALL STARTS WITH NOT SETTLING!īy day, Faith Jenkins is the host of the nationally syndicated TV show Divorce Court by night, she’s a happily married newlywed who navigated these dating streets for years before learning how to attract the love of her dreams. We dated for four months, and in the end his insecurities and his need for female adulation were too much for me. #4 I met with an attorney named Brian, who seemed nice enough. I found a good hairstylist in New York, and made sure to see her weekly so that I’d always look good just in case he called for the next date. I spent hours on the phone with my girlfriends gushing about him. #3 The Rules say that after a few dates with a man, you should start thinking about marriage. I wanted a love as deep as the ocean and as strong as Gorilla Glue with nothing but room to keep growing.

I’m a small-town girl who has always dreamed big, and it never sat right with me that I might be expected to sacrifice quality for speed. #2 I have never desired a love that felt like crossing something off a list. It’s exhausting to hear about so many relationships that failed because someone felt pressured and made poor decisions based on an artificial timeline. Sample Book Insights: #1 The media constantly sends the message to single women that it is unacceptable to not be married by a certain age. Please note: This is a companion version & not the original book.

Sis, Don't Settle by Faith Jenkins